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Old 09-19-2002, 01:06 PM
Mandy36 Mandy36 is offline
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Default Being spanked by my husband

Like many of you, I have had a spanking fetish for most of my adult life. Of course when I was a child, I didn't like it AT ALL! But something changed after I entered adulthood. I dated a guy who was "kind of " into spanking. It wouldn't happen the way I wanted it to, like a true punishment spanking with scolding and all. But it happened enough that I was more and more interested in it. Our releationship ended and I ended up marrying the next guy I dated.

My husband is NOT into spanking at all. It took me a long time to confess my feelings about it to him. Actually during sex one time I asked him to smack my ass a few times. He did and I loved it. Afterwards however he told me how he truly felt about it. That it's not something he's interested in. But he said he'd do it to me if that is what made me happy. (Sigh....I'm a lucky gal!)

Over the years, most of the times that I ask him to spank me is during foreplay or sex. It usually would consist of his asking me if I was a naughty girl that day, of course I would say yes. :-) He would tell me to flip over onto my tummy and would proceed to give me 5 or 6 moderate smacks with his hand very slowly. I guess it was ok, I mean I'm lucky that he does that right? But I found myself drumming my fingers wanting more.

One night, I'd say a few months ago, we were engaging in foreplay and we did the usual "Have you been a naughty girl today" thing. I gave my answer. This time it was different. My husband ordered me over his knee and without much warning, began to spank me hard and fast. I was taken back and didn't know what to do. It hurt like hell but I loved it! It could have lasted longer but he was concerned about hurting me. That night I would love to report changed our spanking relationship a bit. But it still won't be done how I want it to be. I've told him what I want and he's tried, but we end up laughing and things stop. It's just not him and so it's hard to take it seriously. Anyrate, I'll take what I can get. I'm lucky to get anything at all!

Sassy and naughty
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Old 01-01-2003, 11:50 AM
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Cool Being Spanked by Your Husband

Hi Mandy;
My experience has led me to believe that if you were Spanked by someone other than your husband-Someone with a sincere interest in Spanking that you would surely experience a very Real,painfull/tearfull Spanking!!--Which I believe is your desire/fantasy!!
As a youngster I had received many OTK Spankings from my Parents,Aunts and teachers-However the Severest Spankings of my life were from my Lovely Aunt Julia!! She would take me Over Her Knee and Spank my bare bottom until my Screams from her Hand Prints became Sobbs of total remorse!!
I really think that my Aunt took lessons from Ms.D!!

Sincerely or Severely,
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Old 01-01-2003, 02:47 PM
Mandy36 Mandy36 is offline
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Thanks for the reply Frank! I've already figured out that for my fantasy to come true, yes, I'd have to have someone else spank me. However, I have a problem with that. Both my hubby and myself would consider it cheating.

So for now, I'll take what I can get!

Sassy and naughty
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Old 01-01-2003, 11:17 PM
Audrey Audrey is offline
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Default Mandy, Mandy, Mandy...

You've got a witness, sister. Been there. Done that. My advice is to buy a mean paddle and then really piss him off. I mean, really piss him off. Then you'll find out how adaptable he can be.

Of course, hubby went back to his usual mellow self before too long, and he's just such a boy scout. His co-workers used to call him 'Nice Guy.' We eventually gave up on the discipline, and our erotic forays are touch and go. We're as likely to end up giggling as anything.

My advantage is that hubby doesn't mind the idea of me being spanked by someone else... as long as its someone safe and not a single Brad Pitt look-a-like with a history of playing. He knows I'd never cheat.

Hmm... I guess I don't have a solution after all. What the hell am I posting for?

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Old 01-09-2003, 11:48 AM
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Mandy, there is no telling how seriously and deep you and husband can talk, although the experience you briefly bring up with the spanking "outside" is in itself an indication of openness. Still - when after years of solitary frustration I brought the subject up my wishing to be spanked and spank in return to my wife, her reaction and actions were similar to what you describe. I then went "outside" for gratification and didn't quite get it - that episode in itself was exhilarating, perhaps some other time with details, only it mad eme realize that I must have this spanking act in my life); then it took a while to formulate in my mind what was it that made it so special for me, and then began a program of education (for both me and her), including sharing in other people's experiences - QSM is an example of an organization that had a great educational role. I am not talking about the images on the Internwet and magazines and picture books - let's be serious, showing a "virgin" images even as nice and wholesome as those in Realspankings while saying: "see, I want you to do that to me" will generate the exact opposite of the reaction you hope for, sort of like wanting to get your first kiss after showing XXX pictures to your girlfriend...

Anyway, after a lot of discussion ("are you sure this is not hurting you?! I don;t want to hurt you...") and reading (Pat Califia, a lot, and Gloria Brame especially, look these two authors up), we agreed to try a scenario, and did it, very cool at first and not hesitating to ask for action or advice and feedback of any kind. It felt awkward at first, all sorts of things went slightly awry in our minds and with the hardware as well - the handle of the cheap hair brush broke, and the end of the cane wrapped around quite a bit, and not always the pain was as welcome as I would expect. It was not long before we began exchanging places, and explore methods and tools, scenarios and no scenarios, even at one time a special trip to a rural region where birch trees were naturally available (they are not so everywhere, unfortunately), so that I could go and collect freely those necessary twigs for a nice birch rod, not unlike we see on Jessica's site - by the way, this birch is great in a hotel room, as it makes practically no noise, while being quite effective - especially after jacuzzi. Quite!!!

In the end, this is what I have to say: it may take some doing if you want more then the occasional slap, and some planning and patience and courage, yes. It worked for me, and it payed off - this is the only reason I extend this advice here.
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