Cane questions

Kassidy Paige · #1 05-05-2005, 05:38 AM

I got my Mother's Day gift yesterday, and he decided to get me the brat tamer from schoolcanes.com. It's really light, whippy, and quiet (which will be a huge deal in a few months when the kids start getting an idea of what's going on after they go to bed) but I hate it. I don't know if it's just that he's not as confident with it, or that it just feels so different from anything else we have. Maybe it was just too intense to use without any build up.

What is the correct position for a spankee to recieve the cane? What is the proper technique for it to be applied? Should it impact both cheeks with each stroke or alternate right cheek, left cheek?

Victoria Wood · #2 05-05-2005, 05:55 AM

Kassidy,

The Brat Tamer is incredibly intense. It feels a lot different from thicker canes. I agree that it is nearly intolerable unless you are already pretty well spanked, and even then.

Generally, you should be bent over to take a caning. Usually the cane is applied across both cheeks, but it can be applied to each cheek separately. B/c the brat tamer is so small it would have to be applied to one side at a time. It can also be used OTK.

The tip hurts the most. He needs to be careful b/c the tip tends to not land where you think it is landing and it can wrap. And it can break the skin if applied very hard or repeatedly. (The brat tamer probably won't break skin.)

With a regular sized cane, you are supposed to wait between strokes so that the canee feels the full wave of pain before receiving the next stroke.

You don't have to go very hard to get a lot of pain from a cane.

Don't you agree that it feels like a thousand bumble bees? M applies it fast (but not that hard) and I scream.

Also, you may prefer thuddy to stingy. The Brat Tamer is about as far as you can go on the stingy side.

All canes are stingy but the thicker the more thud. You might prefer one that is 1/4". I think that is my favorite.

Kassidy Paige · #3 05-05-2005, 06:18 AM

He was swinging pretty fast, although not all that hard. I think it's just the sting is so concentrated at the tip that it's hard to process.

I'm not going to write it off after just one try. I think it would be better in a proper scene, instead of 'pull your pants down and lets try this out'. Also, I was laying flat across the bed. That made him swing the cane down instead of across, so that could make a difference too. All I could think the whole time he was using it was 'I hate this, I hate this, I hate this'.

Victoria Wood · #4 05-05-2005, 06:28 AM

The thing about the cane -- as cinni once said -- it doesn't look like it could inflict the amount of pain it does. Does he know how it feels?

I think 1 or 2 whacks and recovery time might be the way to go. I can imagine a "no, please I'll be good I promise." WHISH CRACK. "Uuuhhh! no, please no more ..." beg, beg, beg, Etc. So that the blows are spaced out and each one anticipated with fear and dread.

Ooo, I'm giving myself a woody.

Kassidy Paige · #5 05-05-2005, 06:38 AM

:funny: Your description makes me want to give it another try.

No, he doesn't know what any of our toys feel like. I'm going to suggest that he just whack himself in the thigh with all of them, just to get an idea. I would soooo love to try them all out on his manly ass, but I know that will never happen.

Victoria Wood · #6 05-05-2005, 06:52 AM

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Originally posted by Kassidy Paige
[BI'm going to suggest that he just whack himself in the thigh with all of them, just to get an idea. I would soooo love to try them all out on his manly ass, but I know that will never happen. [/b]

Oh I know what you mean, girl! I would LOVE to spank M's butt -- but I get a spanking every time I even mention it.

It is helpful for him to know the sensations. The brat tamer, IMO, is one of the most extreme toys you can play with. It needs to be introduced in small doses.

What other toys do you have? (I can't remember.)

Kassidy Paige · #7 05-05-2005, 07:09 AM

We don't have many toys. All we have is a wooden spoon, a short strap, a hairbrush paddle, one of the Cracker Barrel paddles, and now the brat tamer.

The CB paddle is a new addition too, but I LOVE it! It's the perfect balance of sting and burn. It's wider than the spoon, so the sting is spread out and it's not as thick as the hairbrush paddle, so it doesn't bruise as easily. It turns my bottom bright pink after only 10 swats or so. Hubby likes it too, you should see the evil glint in his eyes when he picks it up, it's so funny.

SpkrBryan · #8 05-05-2005, 10:43 AM

Kassidy,

Victoria already gave you all the best advise, all I can say here is we have a brat tamer, and when I use it on Dee she is usually screaming after about 20 (fast ones). It is very intense, but she "loves" to hate it.

SpkrBryan

schoolcanes.com · #9 05-05-2005, 03:08 PM

To avoid the stroke being concentrated at the tip, the cane should land parallel to the surfaces. Maybe this would be more likely to happen if he first lines up the cane flat against your bottom, i.e. tap, tap, then lets it fly. That would be hard to do with you lying down unless he made a conscious effort. Bending over or across the back of a couch etc. would make it easier for the cane to land flat and avoid tip contact before cane contact.

As has been said, maybe just 6 strokes with lecture between, so the caning lasts a few minutes, would work better. It could be applied across both cheeks, but that would depend upon the "butt size".

Kassidy Paige · #10 05-05-2005, 03:42 PM

Thank you so much for the tips. I'm definately not giving up on the cane just yet. It's such a different sensation than anything I've ever felt before. Plus, even if I do hate it, then hubby can use it when I need a serious behavior correction.