Exercise And Discipline - I Need Input

Sassi · #1 10-23-2002, 12:47 PM

Okay, here we go. I've been ordered by 'Sir' to post the following. If I don't post it by the designated time then I'm to be switched. Now, trust me, I did consider not posting. Reason was because Sir knows for some reason the 'switch' scares me (think I've seen one tooooo many videos of it...lol). I keep figuring if I don't post then I will get the switch and get over the fear. However, I've yet to have the guts to do so. Most things I fear I hit them head on, however, this is different I can't seem to get myself to defy him because I have a fear of the switch!

I've been told by my doctor and by a few friends that I am a bit of a work-a-holic. I need to back off, and spend some time alone, destress, and just having 'fun'. The idea is to get me to 'not' do business, take a break, not get burned out and escape for a while.

I came up with the idea to 'workout', which means I want to join a gym! I've decided I want to work out 3 times a week, 2 of which will mean being in the gym, one of which I might do at home. It could be in the gym, but I save the option to have it be home if need be. The place I've found to 'workout' is about 40 min. from me and I don't want to box myself into a position of getting punished in case I can't make it three times a week. Yet, I want that 3 times a week workout! I've picked a spot which is near where I might do business, so being in that area at least twice a week shouldn't be to tough to accomplish. I would like a place closer to my home, but honestly there is NO place for me to chose!

Now, I want to commit to this working out thing, honestly more for the relief of stress and to simply 'getaway'. Yes, I'm doing it for the exercise, but I truly need 'time' alone w/ myself and doing something for myself! Sometimes I feel as if I'm giving, giving and giving constantly w/ business, kids, family and etc...... I think I need this for my mental sanity!

When I told Sir my idea of working out, he thought it should go into my discipline program. At first I wasn't thrilled with the idea. Then I tried figuring out WHY I wasn't thrilled with the idea. I know the reason is because if I put it in my program then I'm actually accountable and I will work out, which is what I am wanting, but this part of me just might not have wanted to commit totally cuz I was fighting him on it to a degree. HOWEVER, I've now decided that I need this, and if I do allow Sir to discipline me should I not hold out to my workout program then I will be more apt to actually go and workout, thereby being a much nicer gal! lol.......

Now, why am I posting this? LOL..... Okay, here is the deal, Sir wants ideas on how to discipline me should I not live up to my commitment to workout 3 times a week! IN the discipline program I have outlined w/ Sir, everything is pre-decided. This will be no exception.

So please give my disciplinarian some ideas on what would be FAIR in the area of disciplining me. Keep in mind FAIR, FAIR, FAIR!

I'll thank you now, as I'm sure I won't want to thank you later! lol......

Thanks,

Sassi

:badpac:

badgirl4u · #2 10-23-2002, 08:11 PM

Sassi,

Ok, brace yourself...you're gonna HATE this idea! However, if Bob uses it, you will definately be working out 3x per week!

Ready?

Ok.

How about 3 lashes with the switch for every workout you miss? Immediately afterwards, you will have to exercise sitting down (Ex: rowing machine, bike, etc.)!

I know you hate the switch and on the off chance you decide to take the switching, your ass will be hurting even more having to makeup sessions in a sitting position. You would not only be sitting on a sore butt, but actually experiencing "friction" while doing the exercises! OUCH!

Sassi · #3 10-23-2002, 08:20 PM

Yes Cimbah, I do consider myself lucky in the discipline front. I'm sure Bob cares about all his spankees, I'm sure that's why he's so good at this.

You know Cimbah, concerning your 'p.s.', people being different is what makes this America. We're not all alike, we're all unique in our own ways. Of course everyone is equal.

Sassi

Sassi · #4 10-23-2002, 08:46 PM

Badgirl4u, always remember, one day you could be in my position and have to post what I had to post! :badpac:

I'll be honest, I'm not thrilled about your suggestion, but I'm sure Bob will be as it seems he enjoys seeing me get upset about the switch issue.

Sassi

meyer358 · #5 10-23-2002, 08:52 PM

I did want to clarify I did not order Sassi to post this idea of mine. It was merely a suggestion. Although, it is truly a great suggestion. Also, I did not threaten Sassi with the switch; I merely suggested that the switch could be a valuable motivational tool to get her to make this post. Now some other thoughts:

First, I wanted to comment on Cimba's comment: " You are one extremely lucky lady to have a disciplinarian that cares about you." This was very well put

Now for badgirl4u comment: How about 3 lashes with the switch for every workout you miss? Immediately afterwards, you will have to exercise sitting down (Ex: rowing machine, bike, etc.)! ( I can see that badgirl4u and Sassi are destined to be great friends

This is a very clever idea and one I will certainly have to consider.

I thought I would wait for a week from today for everyone’s ideas and then make my announcement on which I shall pick as the lucky winner of Sassi's discipline. Perhaps, I shall give the lucky winner who comes up with the best idea of Sass's discipline a spanking from the all time # 1 spanker in the world. Just think ladies, here is your chance to get the best spanking you will ever have. Sassi can let you know first hand how wonderful my spankings are.

I shall anxiously await everyone’s ideas on what discipline shall motivate Sassi to maintain her work out program.

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badgirl4u · #6 10-23-2002, 09:11 PM

Sassi,

I certainly hope Bob is right in the idea that we are destined to be great friends!

About my "suggestion". I warned you that you wouldn't like it! However, you have stated that Bob knows your limits and I trust he will not choose such a punishment if it's not within those limits. Also, I am assuming that you will have a say in what the punishment will be? After all, he can not add the punishment to your "contract" without you agreeing beforehand. Lastly, if it is added, you have COMPLETE and TOTAL control over having to live up to it by simply going to all of your workouts.

Kind of a catch 22 huh? Hmmm......

P.S. I hope that one day I will be in your position!

meyer358 · #7 10-23-2002, 09:14 PM

I have decided that the Switch shall not be part of Sassi's program. However, all other ideas concering he discipline will be considered.

Sassi · #8 10-23-2002, 09:30 PM

Badgirl4u,

First, I'm sure you and I are destined to be friends, you remind me of me....lol.....

Second, are you also that other 'badgirl' person? Just wondering, seen someone around and wondering if you're one in the same or if that is someone different.

Third, certain implements are what I think are severe. The switch and cane being two. I don't take these two lightly as I think they shouldn't just be used on a lark.

Fact is, whether I want to admit it or not, the switch scares me. The cane also has the potential of doing the same. The difference is I've been caned. I've never been switched. What the cane could do ultimately scares me as much as the switch.

If I get the switch, I don't think it should be used for a workout issue, or a bedtime issue. I think it's a more serious implement to be used for more serious issues. That is how I mentally associate it. I see it as 'severe' because of what I've seen.

I do trust Bob enough to know that he would not hurt me, he reads my reactions great. I think should I one day get the switch it won't be decided on a board for a 'light' issue.

Now, should I get it one day, you can bet I'll write about it. lol....

Bob took this off the table because he knew it was upsetting me. It makes me panic. Do I trust him to use it on me? Yes, however I don't think I'd agree to it unless it was a very serious issue and that issue would either have to be 'safety' issues, health issues, death/life type of issues.

Sassi

bRiTtyY · #9 10-23-2002, 10:00 PM

Also Sassi, I am trying to get into shape too. Don't get me wrong I am by no means overweight. I just want my abs more like Britney Spears's. LOL!

dancerdaycare · #10 10-24-2002, 12:27 AM

I think the punishment should reflect the crime and that it should also reflect the days missed. For example for missing one ina week workout the puishment should be a sound otk spanking followed by 40 swats from the paddle and 15 minutes cornertime. :badpac: Missing two workouts in one week should earn a sound otk spanking, 40 swats from the paddle, 20 smacks from the strap and a half an hour of cornertime. For missing three in one week, a sound otk after a hot bath follwed by 60 swats with the paddle and half an hour of corner time plus a sound 40 swats from the paddle the next day. These are just the thought of the writer please feel fre to adjust to your personal system. Butt it should motivate the person to continue with her workout routine :redmoon: